Posted by: mattfurr | 01/18/2012

2011 in the rearview mirror

One of the things I enjoy about this time of the year is the reflection time. Sure, it’s just a flip of a piece of paper and about a week of trying to remember to put the correct numbers in the “date” section of any document. But it’s still a great time to look back and give God thanks for another year of His favor, leadership, and faithfulness. This is a snapshot of The Furr family…

Heidi – It’s been an incredible year for Heidi at work. A little more than a year ago, she sensed God leading her from her job at a great teaching hospital near the city and to invest herself in a local community hospital. God has given her incredible favor and a wonderful ministry to people in the ICU here in Libertyville. God lead. Heidi obeyed. And it’s been a great run!

Izak – This past year, Izak took the plunge into the suburban ritual called soccer! And he loved every minute of it! His first time on a team ignited a fire in him that has fostered a love of the game, especially Manchester United. He’s actually pretty good, too. He continues to love school and is a fantastic friend to those around him.

Liberty – what a girl! She has grown in her love for God and horses. A sweet disposition and a strong desire for justice in her world. It was a year filled with gently kissed cheeks…Did I mention that she loves horses?

Levi – My youngest is a warrior to the bone.  The other day, when asked what movie he wanted to watch, his answer was, “anything with shooting, war, and blood.”  Yup…he’ll be a fun ride for sure!  After not being so sure, he’s settled into liking school – it was hard at first because they make you work so hard!  As he explores his own relationship with God, he is drawn to God’s strength and justice – he totally loves the story about David cutting the head off Goliath (see first comment).  Great kid with a strong heart.

Matt – This year blew my mind.  Last winter, Heidi agreed to Biju Thomas, a friend and ministry leader in India, that I would come to visit him this year.  What an amazing trip it was!  I spent the first week in the bush of Kenya seeing an amazing ministry that is committed to rescuing and developing Kenyan orphans.  Oasis has grown from 3 to over 100 kids in the past few years.  It’s incredible to see the life in these kids through the grace of God.  Then the second leg of the trip was to Bihar, India, where Christians make up only .05% of the population.  Transformation India Movement is doing its part to bring the holistic Gospel to people who are living and dying with Christ.  My life will be forever changed because of what I experienced there.  I’ll put more into words in another post.

My family means the world to me!  I love taking this journey with them.  God uses my wife and children to teach me so much about his grace, mercy, forgiveness, love, justice, and nearness.  God is using them to bring about his incredible redemption to my life.

There is much journey to go.  And I’m thankful for the gift God has given to me…my family.

 

Posted by: mattfurr | 04/26/2011

Practical Atheism and Transformational Christianity

This is taken from a teaching by Scott Chapman, Sr. Pastor of The Chapel.  I edited it some and re-used it in a leadership development teaching that I have done for a few years now.  It’s core to who we are as The Chapel leadership community.

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The Problem is Practical Atheism

Long ago in ancient Israel the men of the tribe of Issachar were said to have “understood their times and knew what the people of God should do”

(I Chronicles 12:32).  We live in a rapidly changing and critically important moment in history and, like the men of Issachar, we too must understand our times and determine what the people of God should do.

When we seek to read the signs of our times and discern the tides of our culture we come across a singular idea that is woven into our national fabric and has come to define the essence of our society.  That idea is called Practical Atheism.

Practical Atheism is believing that God exists while behaving as if He did not.  It represents a dichotomy between who we say we are and who we actually are.  We as a nation profess to believe that God is real, but the truth is that His reality fails to impact us at a significant level.  Studies have repeatedly shown that there is little difference in the lives of those who claim to believe in God and those who don’t.  That is the essence of Practical Atheism; a faith so insignificant that it makes no practical difference in the life of the believer and no marked distinction in the conduct of a nation.

The speed with which our society has embraced Practical Atheism has been blistering.  In only the past 80 to 100 years our culture has undergone a colossal shift in the way it understands life.  This shift represents the largest and fastest turn of any society from one foundation for civilization to another in the world’s history.  Our nation’s turn has been so fast that for those of us born during this time, the velocity of this change has been totally imperceptible.  It is hard for us to understand that things were not always as they are now.

To illustrate how rapid and all encompassing this change has been, we only need to look at the six major epicenters of culture in our nation.  These six institutions collectively serve to define reality (what is true) and morality (what is good) for our society.  They are the means by which ideas and values come into vogue and are validated.  These institutions drive the way in which we understand and approach life as a culture.


The Six Epicenters of Culture

1.        Science

Until about 80 to100 years ago, science was thought of and expressed as the study of God’s creation, but after the popular ascent of the theory of evolution, science came to be seen as incompatible with a belief in God.  In a radical departure from the thinking of men as well regarded as Albert Einstein, the vast majority of scientists now exclude God from every attempt to explain the world.

 

“Science without religion is lame, religion without science is blind.”

Albert Einstein

2.       Government

Until about 80 to100 years ago, government was believed to have derived its authority from God and saw itself as being responsible to God for its decisions.  Not only is the Constitution of the United States based upon the values of God, but at its inception our government understood itself to be God’s instrument of bringing virtue, justice and freedom to its people.  After the ideas of socialism gained broad acceptance, our perspective changed and God came to be seen as an obstacle to good and fair government.  Now, it is widely held that every aspect of our government must be diligently protected against any intrusion of faith in God.

“It cannot be emphasized too clearly and too often that this nation was founded, not by religionists, but by Christians; not on religion, but on the gospel of Jesus Christ.  For this very reason, peoples of other faiths have been afforded asylum, prosperity, and freedom of worship here.”

Patrick Henry, “Orator of the American Revolution”

“We recognize no Sovereign but God, and no King but Jesus.”

John Adams, 2nd President of the United States

3.       Therapy

Traditionally, Americans sought wisdom from God’s word and advice from Christian friends and clergy to move through the difficult seasons of life.  About 40 to 80 years ago, the ideas of secular psychology took firm root in our culture and gave birth to the secular therapy movement.  That movement has been so far-reaching that today, twice as many Americans visit a secular therapist as do a primary care physician.  The issue is not whether people should seek advice from others, but rather the nature of the advice itself.  Secular and Christian therapy stand in stark contrast to one another; the former looking inward for resolution to life’s issues, the latter moving outward towards God, seeking healing through a right relationship with Him.

”I believe that the world will either be saved by the psychologists or it won’t be saved at all.”

Abraham Maslow 

4.       Education

America has a proud tradition of public schools that originated with a desire to shape the minds and mold the character of our children in a way that was pleasing to God.  From the beginning, the source of truth and virtue in our nation’s schools was God and His word.  About 60 years ago, God’s role in the classroom was replaced by the ideas and writings of John Dewey, one of the leading secular humanists and the most prominent educational thinker of his day.  His influence is seen in every public school in America and he, more than anyone else, has caused God to be seen as a hindrance to the effective education of our children.  Only a single generation later, God is no longer welcome in our public schools.

“Demons were once appealed to in order to explain bodily disease, and no such thing as a strictly natural death was supposed to happen.  The importation of general moral causes to explain social phenomena is on the same intellectual level.  Reinforced by the prestige of traditional religions, and backed by the emotional force of beliefs in the supernatural, it stifles the growth of… social intelligence.”

John Dewey

5.       Business

Steven Covey, in his best seller The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, studied business and success literature written throughout American history.  He noted that for the first 150 years of our nation, success was centered on what he referred to as the Character Ethic.  The essence of the Character Ethic is that morality is the pathway to success.  The basis for this idea is the belief that since God provides for our needs, success is derived from living in such a way as to please Him.  Covey noted that only in the last 50 years has there been a shift to what he calls the Personality Ethic.  The central idea of the Personality Ethic is that success is generated through the acquisition of social skills and development of personal charisma.  The Personality Ethic rests on the belief that since we must provide for ourselves, our success depends on our ability to do whatever it takes to win.  It is the Personality Ethic, and not the Character Ethic, which defines corporate culture today.  Consequently, the business world finds a genuine belief in God to be minimally superfluous and maximally counterproductive to success.

6.       Media

Traditionally, Americans believed that God was the source of their personal fulfillment, but the rise of the mass media and entertainment industries have challenged this idea and shifted where our nation looks to find personal fulfillment.

Ø  Our news industry is no longer satisfied with reporting significant events and informing us as to what is taking place in the world around us.  Rather, it seeks to shape our perspective and mold our opinion.  Their ambition reveals a core belief that fulfillment can be found in the triumph of a particular agenda.

Ø  Our entertainment industry attracts business by perpetually inflaming our lusts and by pandering to our most base instincts.  No longer satisfied with providing a quality diversion, their actions reveal a core belief that fulfillment can be found in the depths of pleasure and depravity.


Summary of the Six Epicenters

Epicenter                     Message

Science                         We don’t need God to explain the world.

Government               We don’t need God to build a good society.

Therapy                      We don’t need God to make life work.

Education                   We don’t need God to raise our children.

Business                       We don’t need God to provide for our needs.

Media                          We don’t need God to have personal fulfillment.

The 7th Cultural Epicenter

The Church is the 7th cultural epicenter and has not remained unaffected by this trend.  American Christians have not found it difficult to profess their faith, but struggle to see it make a difference in their lives.  The Church in America is increasingly plagued with the symptoms of Practical Atheism.  We are the most educated, resourced and privileged church in history, yet more and more of us are…

Ø  Dissatisfied with our experience of Christianity.

Ø  Dysfunctional with respect to how our lives work.

Ø  Devoid of impact on the world around us.

The church has been swept up into the wave of Practical Atheism that has washed over our culture.  The secularization of our society has both isolated and privatized our spirituality.  We have moved from a very national and very public faith that influenced every area of our lives to an individualized and heavily secluded faith that is disconnected from virtually every aspect of how we live.  On a broad spectrum, our faith has been divorced from how our culture defines both reality and morality.  This change has reduced what it means to believe in God to something on the level of a color preference or favorite sports team; non-consequential and tailored to suit our individual tastes.  It doesn’t hold enough meaning to influence our lives in any significant way.  The secularization of our culture has led to Practical Atheism.  Practical Atheism, combined with our culture’s blind acquiescence to the ideas of other religions, has paralyzed the church’s ability to move forward and marginalized its influence in our nation.

The Solution is Transformational Christianity

 Transformational Christianity is the only thing that can free us from captivity of Practical Atheism.  The heart of Transformational Christianity is born of the conviction that God is real and can be summarized in a single sentence:

 If we ReDiscover God, He will transform our lives.

 The essence of transformational Christianity is a relationship with God that not only affects the way we live, but transforms the nature of our lives.  God isn’t so much interested in leading us into a different set of behaviors as He is leading us into a different type of life; a life that we love, a life that works and a life that He can use.

 Therefore, I urge you, brothers, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God — this is your spiritual act of worship.  Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.  Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is — his good, pleasing and perfect will.

Romans 12:1-2

 Blessed is the man who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked or stand in the way of sinners or sit in the seat of mockers.  But his delight is in the law of the LORD, and on his law he meditates day and night.  He is like a tree planted by streams of water, which yields its fruit in season and whose leaf does not wither.  Whatever he does prospers.  Not so the wicked!  They are like chaff that the wind blows away.  Therefore the wicked will not stand in the judgment, nor sinners in the assembly of the righteous. For the LORD watches over the way of the righteous, but the way of the wicked will perish.

Psalm 1

 How Do We ReDiscover God?

Living like God is real involves 3 specific practices that must become the natural rhythm of our lives.  Living like God is real means…

Ø  Living in His Presence

Ø  Living by His Principles

Ø  Living for His Purpose

How Does God Transform Our Lives?

When we begin to live like God is real, He begins to make our lives everything He intended them to be.  God will make our lives…

Ø  Satisfying

Ø  Work

Ø  Matter

 

ReDiscovering God Will Transform Our Lives

The specific practices of living like God is real are tied to the specific promises that God will do in our lives.  We say them like this…

Ø  Living in God’s presence brings a life that satisfies.

Ø  Living by God’s principles brings a life that works.

Ø  Living for God’s purpose brings a life that matters.

Posted by: mattfurr | 02/09/2011

Dan Pink on motivation

This 18 minute talk by Dan Pink challenged me to think differently about leadership and motivation…because let’s face it, leadership without great motivation isn’t really leadership. See what you think…

http://www.ted.com/talks/view/id/618

Posted by: mattfurr | 08/25/2010

Holy Cow!

It’s obvious from my lack of recent posts (and by recent I mean past 5 months!) that things have been abnormally crazy around here.

I’ve had the opportunity to be an ambassador of sorts with Christ Together – an organization which seeks to spark a sustained Christ-awakening by encouraging the whole Church to bring the whole Gospel to the whole city.  Our first stop was Hampton Roads, VA, where we have seen God do incredible things.

As of last week, there were over 30 churches pursuing partnership with Christ Together, meaning that they are committed to relational connections and missional initiatives together.  The Church of  Hampton Roads is on the move!

We are now exploring the next cities that God is leading us to.  These are exciting days.

I’m also navigating a lot of transition at The Chapel in Libertyville.  We’ve had some staff changes that are requiring a ton of time.  Hiring and helping staff transition into new roles is a huge investment of time, energy, and prayer.

Even though the staff transitions have been challenging (especially because the hiring part isn’t going as smoothly as I had hoped), I’m seeing God do incredible things in people’s lives.  I’ve seen marriages restored, bodies healed, freedom from depression and anxiety, transformation in big ways!

So…these are exciting and challenging days.  But that’s the gig.  Anyone who wants mundane and normal shouldn’t walk with God.  Anyone who needs predictable will find it in God’s character, but not in life.  And if you want to see a true spiritual revolution, it’s going to consume, frustrate, and challenge you at every turn.

But, man, is it worth it!  I’m getting a taste of the revolution…and I want more!  Even if that means I don’t get to write as much…

Posted by: mattfurr | 04/01/2010

To Act Justly

What is true justice?  For so many of us, it’s a relative concept – when I am personally offended or treated unfairly, then I call for justice.  Like my kids, I cry out “That’s unfair!”

Gary Haugen from the International Justice Mission says that injustice is when someone uses their power for their own benefit at the expense of another.  I think that’s a pretty solid working definition of injustice.

So, conversely, justice is to use one’s power for the benefit of those without that same power.  God’s justice is to use His power on behalf of those who don’t have power.  For example, justice is for God to leverage his power so that humans can have the benefit of freedom, which comes through the defeat of sin.

Most of us living on Main Street don’t think of ourselves in terms of our power.  But I would suggest that each of us has some power – something we leverage on a regular basis.  And all too often, it’s at the cost of others.

Examples of this?

- Parents leverage their power in the lives of their kids for their own benefit.  Yelling was for my own emotional satisfaction, not the benefit of my child.  The punishment was more about me exerting power than it was training up my child.

- I’m Caucasian.  When I get stopped by a cop, I don’t have to wonder if it’s because I don’t fit in this neighborhood or simply because I might have the wrong color skin.  And the fact that some of you reading this can wave racism away dismissively as a thing of the past is a luxury that only some people have.  It’s a benefit that I have because of my skin tone.

- When my kids are not getting the attention that I think they need at the school, I have the ability to advocate for them.  There are plenty of families in my community who don’t have that ability for a variety of reasons – they don’t understand the language well enough to confront the nuances of the school system, they don’t know how to advocate for themselves or their children, they are overwhelmed by the system.  So they don’t.

You get the picture.  Every day, we leverage our power for our own benefits.  To “act justly” is to make a conscious choice that I will use what I’ve been given for the benefit of others.  And on top of that, I will refuse to participate in systems that is built on the backs of others who cannot advocate for themselves.

Philippians 2:5-7 (New International Version)

5Your attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus:
6Who, being in very nature[a] God,
did not consider equality with God something to be grasped,
7but made himself nothing,
taking the very nature[b] of a servant,
being made in human likeness.

What do you think?

Posted by: mattfurr | 02/18/2010

A Season to Identify

My father had some big ole’ cowboy boots.  They were the workin’ kind, too – not the stylish, fancy ones.  They were for kickin’ dirt and getting stuff done.

After he passed, those boot regularly caught my attention.  As a young boy, I was eager to identify with my father – I wanted to be just like him.  And so I would wear the boots…at least I would try to.  My size 5 feet in a size 12 boot was pretty comical, I’m sure.  But when I wore those boots, I could leave huge footprints in the mud – they were my dad’s footprints.

There are moments along our faith journey when identifying with Christ more intentionally is important to us.  For many, the season of Lent is a time to identify with Christ in a focused way.  The 40 days of Lent remind of Jesus in the wilderness.  He fasted for 40 days.  And in the moment of his great physical weakness, he was spiritually strong enough to stand firm in the face of temptation.

If we’re not careful, however, our spiritual practices can become attempts to earn God’s favor.  And in doing so, we miss the point.  The point is not to earn his favor through self-sacrifice; it is to enjoy the favor of his presence and the transformation of our spirits to become more like him.

The prophet Micah spoke to the people of Jerusalem.  They were cut to the heart by the prophet’s indictment of their pride and self-dependence.  In repentance, they turned to God, crying out, “What must we do?  How can we earn your favor once again?”

In response, the prophet says this in Micah 6:8:  “He has showed you, O man, what is good.  And what does the Lord require of you?  To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.”

This challenge by the prophet becomes a transformational framework for reflecting on our identification with Christ.  It is not enough to simply bear his name, we must also live his life.

The next several posts will walk us through those three pieces and what they look like for us.  Let’s take a journey together as we identify with Christ in preparation for the Easter celebration.

Posted by: mattfurr | 02/01/2010

tradition vs truth (on the other hand)

Tradition holds us back!  Make it walk the plank!  And let’s run unfettered into the future that is ours!

Tradition can, indeed, hold us back from following God.  But on the other hand, tradition can also serve us very well.

Healthy traditions tell stories.  They tell stories about your family, your church, even your God.  Passover is a tradition that anchors the story of Yahweh to the redemption of His people.  The men’s annual fishing trip tells the story of a family whose men feed off of time together, laughing, challenging, and encouraging each other.  The sound of the nails pounding the scraps of paper listing out sin tells the story of a community that is in desperate need of God’s grace.

There are common marks of healthy traditions:

- They withstand scrutiny. It’s healthy to ask if the tradition in question still works for us.  If it does, we’ll do it again.  If not, we establish another marker.

- They are inter-generational. The richest traditions are the ones that can be passed from one generation to the next.  The older generation wrote their story into the tradition.  The new generation writes a unique story into the same tradition.

- They keep you grounded in the truth. The place where truth and tradition intersect is very powerful.  God meets you in those places.  God changes you in those places.

So what are the best of your traditions?  And what makes them so great?  Share with us…

Posted by: mattfurr | 01/20/2010

tradition vs truth

I was given the book by a friend.  Golf’s Sacred Journey by David L. Cook.  It’s been a fun read about a hobby I enjoy.  And being that recreation is actually a discipline for some people (myself included), it seemed like a good use of my time.

I was sidetracked by this question found in a dialogue between a pro-golfer-gone-wrong and his cowboy-mentor:

“Is it tradition you seek, or truth?…Is it excellence, or acceptance?…These are the questions of greatness.  These are the questions that must be answered if a man is going to lead a revolution.” p84.

Can I step out on a limp on this?  Offer me some grace in case I’m wrong.  I don’t think Christ created the Church to be a repository of tradition.  Actually, I’m pretty confident that I’m right.

But if I’m right, then why do most churches act as if the most important thing they can do it preserve tradition?  Why do most leaders in the church lead as if their role is to keep safe the holy grail of tradition?

When we live to preserve tradition, we are often doing so at the cost of truth.  Truth is timeless, but not traditional.  Truth if vibrant, not stale.  Truth impact life now.

Think about yourself for a moment.  In what areas of life are living as if tradition is paramount?  Who you visit on holidays?  Where you worship?  How you worship?  Where you bank?  What kind of car you drive?

As you live a revolutionary life, what traditions need to be challenged in order to make room for truth?

Posted by: mattfurr | 01/06/2010

Furr Family Update

I’d love to share some ways that the Furr family has been experiencing God this past year.

Matt - I’m about to finish my 3rd year on staff at The Chapel.  I love the Campus Pastor gig and believe I’m growing as a leader, husband, father, and Christian.  This past year, I’ve lost about 50 pounds (about an Izak) and am working for another 30 or so.

Heidi – At the end of 2008, Heidi’s work with an agency dried up – hospitals weren’t using agency nurses like they once were.  After a few months with no work, she ended up as a registry nurse for Loyola in Maywood, IL.  She loves, loves that hospital and generally works in ICU or Recovery.  She’s an amazing nurse, mother, wife, and exudes Godly character.  I love seeing her gift of mercy at work in the lobby at The Chapel, where she has opportunity to love people walking through and praying with those who need it.

Izak - This fall he started 1st grade and going to school for a full day.  I wasn’t sure how that would go – it’s been awesome!  He loves school and is such a good friend to the kids around him.  He’s also started reading chapter books this year.  I’m so proud of his character.  He also started piano lessons, which he loves!  He has a soft heart toward Jesus and is eager to tell the people around him how important God is.

Liberty – Lib continues to be a joy.  She walks around the house freely singing as she draws and pretends to be a kitty.  She is soft-hearted and loves to stay up late and sleep in (my kind of girl!).  She also has a growing love for God and desires to be with Him forever.  As a Kindergartner, she loves school and is making great friends.  She’s a wonderful reader!

Levi – He started pre-school a couple days a week.  After the first day, he explained to Mom that she could just drop him off – he doesn’t need her to walk him in.  He doesn’t lack confidence at all!  And he’s just a cool kid.  He loves super heroes and Darth Vader.  And please don’t mess with the race that he’s creating with his Cars cars…he spends hours putting them in just the right order.

That’s a quick update from the Furr clan.  I can’t believe we’ve been in Illinois for almost 5 years…seems impossible.  In that time, we’ve experienced God’s hand of provision, protection, grace, and strength.  We’ve grown some amazing friendships and experienced serendipitous love.

Posted by: mattfurr | 01/06/2010

Why do you do that?

In the course of ready a great book about golf and life, I was struck by this question posed by the fictional golf instructor/sage.  “Why do you do that?”  He was asking about the protege’s golf grip.  When the protege responded by saying, “I don’t know,” the instructor sent him for a “timeout” to think things over.

It made me think about various areas of my life.  Why do I do what I do?  I suspect there are things that I’ve stopped thinking about…my answer is “I don’t know.”  I need to send myself to a “timeout” to think it through a little bit.

Why do I schedule my days the way I do?

Why do I eat like I do?

Why do I choose the friendships I do?

Why do I spend time with God like I do?

This time of year is great for evaluations.  Asking this simple question is a great way to evaluate important areas of life.  Relationships.  God.  Prayer.  Service.  Marriage.  Parenting.  Work.  Church.  In each area, ask, “why?”

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